We are not meant to navigate our career journeys alone. Look for an opportunity today to reach out to someone old or new!
Five Ways to Build Relationships while Job Searching
Relationships are an integral part of our lives. Because we often spend more time with our work “families” than others in our lives, we develop strong social ties that are severely impacted when we are faced with job loss. Often, we take for granted just how valuable these relationships are…until they are gone.
The time spent between jobs can be very lonely when we feel this loss. Rather than allowing this loneliness to turn into grief, anger, or depression, we can take action by building new relationships and strengthening old ones!
Here are five ways to begin that process today:
- Tell everyone you know that you are in career transition. Many people have been faced with job loss, so there is no need to feel guilt or shame over your situation. This is not the time to be shy! People naturally want to help, so making them aware of your career transition gives them the opportunity to provide connections, ideas, and feedback. Take advantage of the kindness of others by being honest with them. In time, you will likely be able to return the favor.
- Reconnect with others. In spite of the shock and strong emotions you face at the outset of job loss, rest assured you likely have an untapped – even hidden – network of people ready to help you! One of the best ways to find this network of people is to reconnect with those who were an integral part of your life at one time. Former colleagues, high school and college friends, and even distant family members can be a great asset to your search. Why? Because they come from various career fields and walks of life and can share much-needed information with you! LinkedIn is a GREAT resource for reconnecting with others, as are college alumni events and family reunions. You can learn a great deal about new and exciting opportunities just by reaching out and asking for help from people who already know you.
- Use this time to develop yourself personally. Your job search is a job. But during your “off hours,” find ways to deepen your relationships and interactions with others. This is a time in your life to reflect upon and embrace life in a way you may have not done in quite some time. Is there a hobby, sport, or activity you can pursue with a friend? Is there someone in your life who needs more of your time? Are there unsettled issues that need your attention? As you purpose to grow personally, you will become stronger professionally.
- Visit your local coffee shops and other social venues. Every person you meet has a story, both personally and professionally, and you will not discover these while sitting behind a computer screen. Get out! Visit places that encourage people to share, laugh, and network. If this sounds overwhelming, start as a spectator. Over time, you will become more apt to join in conversations and even learn to initiate dialogue. You never know who you will meet and what opportunities others may have…just for you!
- Join one or more support groups or networking groups. Support is crucial during the job search. Meeting with others who are also job searching has many benefits, some of which include emotional support, opportunities to exchange information, accountability, and time to share constructive criticism. Consider joining groups that also include people who are employed so you can receive current business information and have the chance to connect with relevant professionals in your industry.
We are not meant to navigate our career journeys alone. Look for an opportunity today to reach out to someone old or new! You will be glad you did.
